• Tips for surviving the school holidays

    Yes, I know, late to the party because the school holidays are over like dungarees are in fashion. But, here’s five things I learnt this school holidays (which meant I…

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  • The After-Love Love-Life.

    A friend of mine reminded of this recently – the after-love love-life. (side note – this is just a musing, it has nothing to do with my personal life at…

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  • underneath the table.

    This blog used to be called “random thoughts from underneath the table”. It was a funny title, mostly because people don’t understand why anyone would be talking or writing from…

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  • the chatter

    There’s something to be said about the people who give up the “real” world and run away to live in the mountains, grow their own food and then spend their…

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  • cheesy tuesday.

    I had a choice just now – to continue on my to do list and then go buy cheese (we keep running out – do we have a mouse or…

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  • seven sweet servings…

    I wrote for South African Bloggers recently…   “You are not better than anyone and nobody is better than you. If you are writing and publishing for yourself, with your…

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  • things I like this week.

    1. Neil Hilborn. You’ve all watched his OCD poem. But his other works have made me cry and laugh. These are the ways I wish I could always speak. But…

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  • the absolute fragility of scribbles.

    If you look at my public archives, this will be post #1200 on this here blog. In reality, I’ve locked a lot of stuff away, set it to private or…

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  • The Xef

    Our family fancies itself as wannabe-foodies. We have our favourite restaurants, favourite meals and top routines. But there’s something we love more than our usuals and that is discovering a…

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  • And the winner is…

    Thank you to everyone for entering my little Original Cocktails competition! I really enjoyed reading everyone’s rhymes and it got a little difficult to choose – you’re a funny lot!…

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