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  • The Fortress

    At the age of fifteen, somebody broke my teenager heart. To be honest, I cannot tell you now if it was boy, or a friend, or a situation. But my…

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  • Dear New Year

    Dear New Year, I know that every new year, most people make resolutions, devoting themselves to quitting smoking/losing weight/stopping with the midnight snacks/promising they’ll get more sleep. As we all…

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  • ten things about this year of great change.

    It’s 27 December. Let me just catch that up quickly. Here goes: 1. It means I am 11864 days old. Looking at that number, I suddenly feel VERY young again.…

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  • A family birthday – beyond the fairytale.

    When I was seven – the very age my daughter is now – I cutely quipped to my mom that “anniversaries are family birthdays”. Growing up, my parents’ anniversaries were…

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  • the thing they do not tell you.

    “…the thing they do not tell you about being a writer who talks of life and such, is that you will cry. A lot. At your desk. When nobody else…

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  • touchstones and a lack of cliches

    There are a number of songs that form the soundtrack to my life. For some crazy-wonderful reason, vh1 has rebranded and refocused…and they now play all those songs. 24 hours…

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  • #rememberme

    A few weeks ago, I blogged about #rememberme. The culmination of this campaign was an event, held in Durban over the weekend. Put together by Spiga D’Oro and a bunch of…

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  • Bring out your trolls.

    Right. So, here goes. I have had trolls on my mind a lot this week. I’ve learnt to roll with them, laugh at them and move beyond them. It is…

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  • There’s a thing about friends.

    Friends are never sought out, they happen. They don’t arrive in your life with a sign that says “Hi, I’m your friend. You and I will impart intimate details of…

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  • I could squeal from the cuteness.

    I know we’ve all heard this song before but, did you know that it was actually made up by a mama? Yep. Made up by a mum, sung by a…

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