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March 6, 2017March 6, 2017

The Blume of Blooms

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January 12, 2017January 12, 2017

Self Loathing And Other Stories

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November 28, 2016November 28, 2016

It Was Less Than Ideal, But Then We Found Something New

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November 12, 2016

Eight Minutes.

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November 11, 2016November 11, 2016

Nature is like that.

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September 3, 2016September 3, 2016

Magic and Other Mumbles

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August 20, 2016August 20, 2016

The Chefs Table

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July 23, 2016July 23, 2016

New Glasses

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July 9, 2016July 9, 2016

You have led me home and you’re not even here.

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June 12, 2016June 13, 2016

Born In A Storm… Eleven Years On.

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    This post was originally published in 2015, on DigiKids, a webzine created by Stacey Vee & I, that encouraged parents towards guiding their children through the digital world in a safe, secure, and educational way.
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