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January 10, 2019January 11, 2019

Updated: Cute But Dangerous – Posting Back to School Pictures

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September 28, 2018September 28, 2018

The Playlist From Underneath The Table [The Divorce Edition]

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August 23, 2018August 23, 2018

You Never Really Think…

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February 26, 2018

I can’t wish you a Happy Birthday

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January 31, 2018

The Language of Letting Go

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December 8, 2017December 8, 2017

10 Things.

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November 6, 2017November 6, 2017

Fixing My Face [A Thursday Plantation Review]

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July 1, 2017July 1, 2017

Notes, from underneath the leaves in the Midlands.

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June 17, 2017June 17, 2017

The Art Of Growing Up

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March 25, 2017March 25, 2017

Deadlines For Decisions

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  • Updated: Cute But Dangerous – Posting Back to School Pictures
    This post was originally published in 2015, on DigiKids, a webzine created by Stacey Vee & I, that encouraged parents towards guiding their children through the digital world in a safe, secure, and educational way.
    This post was the most popular item, and has led to much debate in online circles since. Since then, more […]

  • The Playlist From Underneath The Table [The Divorce Edition]
    Around the same time that we started to realise things were not going to turn out the way we planned, I started listening to music again. That must seem super-strange to read, but it is what it is. I’d been so focused on trying to find quiet for so long, that I had forgotten what […]

  • The Language of Letting Go
    I’ve always maintained that parenting hit me like a brick and a cushion. A brick, because the jarring, unyielding, transformations that you go through are neither kind nor easy. And, a cushion, because there is ethereal comfort to be found in creating and sustaining a whole life beyond your own body. That has not changed, […]

  • You Never Really Think…
    You never really think you’re going to get divorced, and then you kinda end up there, wondering how the things you (sensibly) planned for anyway, somehow ended up being the main plan, even when the main plan looked nothing like this. You make the In Case Plan, with your partner, all sensible and serious, yet […]

  • I can’t wish you a Happy Birthday
    Dear Mum, The last time I got to wish you a Happy Birthday was when you turned 67. In 2010. You would not live much longer. But how much time is “much longer”? Well, for this particular scenario, it was less than 4 months. By that time, you were weak, unwilling to give in, and […]
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